Monday, January 16, 2012

Thoughts on Love

Tonite I was reading in Genesis chapter 2. It's a passage that I've read many times, and heard read many times. However, no matter how many times I read it, something new always seems to pop out at me. Tonite it was verses 21-24.  "(21) So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. (22) And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. (23) Then the man said, "This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man." (24) Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." 

The verse that really got my attention the most was verse 23a, where Adam says, "This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;." What an amazing thought! In reading that , I can just imagine the love Adam must have had for Eve. She was truly a part of him! How much love he must have had for her, and what a desire he must have had to protect and lead her. It's such an amazing picture of how a man & woman should be as husband and wife. They should love each other as if they were truly one flesh. Their love for each other should be so strong, as if they were one. I imagine that is how the love between Adam & Eve must have been.

In searching on the internet for a quote that I had seen awhile back in reference to that, I came across also came across a story that was quite similar to the quote. I don't know if the quote came from the story, or if the story came from the quote, but here's the story. It's an explanation of why God made Eve from Adam's rib.


“When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them into being. When I created man, I formed him from the dust of the Earth and breathed life into his nostrils. But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life into man because your nostrils are too delicate. I allowed a deep sleep to come over him so I could patiently and perfectly fashion you. Man was put to sleep so that he could not interfere with the creativity. 

From one bone I fashioned you. I chose the bone that protects man’s life. I chose the rib, which protects his heart and lungs and supports him, as you are meant to do. Around this one bone I shaped you. I modeled you. I created you perfectly and beautifully. Your characteristics are as the rib, strong yet delicate and fragile. You provide protection for the most delicate organ in man, his heart. His heart is the center of his being; his lungs hold the breath of life. The rib cage will allow itself to be broken before it will allow damage to the heart. Support man as the rib cage supports the body. 

You were not taken from his feet, to be under him, nor were you taken from his head, to be above him. You were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be held close to his side. You are my perfect angel. You are my beautiful little girl. You have grown to be a splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I see the virtue in your heart. Your eyes: don’t change them. Your lips: how lovely when they part in prayer. Your nose so perfect in form, your hands so gentle to touch. I’ve caressed your face in your deepest sleep;

I’ve held your heart close to mine. Of all that lives and breathes, you are the most like me.
Adam walked with me in the cool of the day and yet he was lonely. He could not see me or touch me. He could only feel me. So everything I wanted Adam to share and experience with me, I fashioned in you: my holiness, my strength, my purity, my love, my protection and support. You are special because you are the extension of me.

Man represents my image, woman - my emotions. Together, you represent the totality of God. So man: treat woman well. Love her, respect her, for she is fragile. In hurting her, you hurt me. What you do to her, you do to me. In crushing her, you only damage your own heart, the heart of your Father and the heart of her Father. Woman, support man. In humility, show him the power of emotion I have given you. In gentle quietness show your strength. In love, show him that you are the rib that protects his inner self. 


I thought that was an amazing story of why God chose the rib to make woman from. I don't know where it originally came from, but I wanted to share it here.



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